Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Randomly 'Ever after'



In fairy tales, wedding end with happily ever after.
After my whirlwind wedding where everything from scratch
happened in four m ' onths flat, i have nothing much to say.

they say everything's supposed to change after marriage.
Many things do, and many things dont. But its all for the good.
I suppose, anyway, barely a month into it, I dont think I am
expert enough to comment about it. But then even after 50 years into it
i doubt if I ever will be!

But its interesting.
I though I had it all figured out, getting married has directly resulted
in ruthlessly shattering all my concepts.

In short I really dont have anything to say, so I force meaningless
random sentences to fill in the spaces.

In many ways I have realized that marriage directly cuts out
the meaningless randomness in life that we become so accustomed,
which sometimes is a little tough to digest!

And for a marriage to take place itself, a million random things
have to fall in place.

Than one day, when:
kids star calling you 'Aunty',
you stop worrying about you weight (no wonder women bloat after marriage),
you start believing in weird superstitions,
words like 'saving' and 'planning' enters your vocabulary,
you start taking neighborhood gossip seriously

its starts sinking in that you're actually married.
But I guess at the end of the day, its still a series of random events that weirdly adds up to to 'ever after'!

27 Annotations:

Neville said...

Hey congratulations! Good luck to you.

mystupendoussalvation said...

Hey Aunty, ( dont mind me calling you that)

Congrats and best of luck for ur future endeavours...
and I dont understand How does it feel to get married still... but in the end.. u were able to put a smile on my face by ur Weird listings.. Hope for the best!! and do catch up with me on gtalk someday.. would love to hear from u

Love
Stupendous

In Search Of Myself said...

Congrats...Aunty!!! :)

Ashish said...

very well written... Aunty :P
Randomness matters right?
Actually understood that sms after knowing randomness "When your neither sure not confuse...." I feel its randomness only which is we are not sure about???

Srikanth said...

Hey.. Nice Post!! Married Already??

Congratulations!!

Why wasn't I invited for your wedding?? :@

Srikanth(NCC)..

The Wandering Minstrel said...

hello mad! and join my club, it was getting mighty lonely up here and i finally have company. now that we are both sorted and planning and saving, here's the news. got a car! one u will envy :P and yup, u have to meet me before u fly away so i can make u some nice arachavittu sambar and mor kozhambu. call me. seriya?

Goli said...

Maddy, have you started listening to neighbours gossip :).
Have a great great time Maddy.

priyadutta said...

hey ya! very nice pic btw and awesome post as ever :D,
luv
Sharika

priyadutta said...

hey ya! very nice pic btw and awesome post as ever :D,
luv
Sharika

Krishna said...

your best post yet!.
Keep writing.

jaideep said...

Woww.
That's Awesomeee.
Congrats to Kaushik and Madhuri.
hey guess what guruji has made me a teacher for Part1 and YES+.
So feeling Fantastic.

Yup and keep such interesting and funny posts coming

jaigurudeva

Vishu said...
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srikanth.k said...

Dear Madhuri Bhaskaran,

'JAIGURUDEV' !!!

HEARTIEST CONGRATULATIONS once again! May God always shower his choicest blessings on you both !



Srikanth.K

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